Why Agreement Isn't Romance
On Hot-Take Dating and the Difference Between
Handshakes and Hand-Holding

Who Pays On the First Date?
Why Generosity Should Not Be Forced into a Binary

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Why Some Grand Gestures Feel
Romantic - And Others Don't
Lloyd's Boombox vs Charlie Puth's Light Switch

For the Bloom, Not the Bounty

A flower doesn’t bloom because you pulled the petals open —
it blooms when the conditions are right.
Most advice works on the flower. Here, we focus on the climate where romance can unfold.